r-word.org

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

My hubby rocks!

Yes, he rocks musically because he is a stellar guitar player and composer but he just rocks in general. I was having one of those days yesterday where I felt like the black sheep of the world and had 100 things to do and just couldn't accept that they all couldn't be done in one day. I talked to him on the phone about feeling sad and like no one liked me which usually doesn't bother me (story of my life, undiagnosed Aspie?) and overwhelmed by all my responsibilities and projects that are half finished (I have way too many interests) or waiting to get started. He gave me a pep talk and tried to make me feel better.

I just couldn't stop feeling so much anxiety. He came home and immediately made the beds with the bedding I had washed earlier in the day, vacuumed the upstairs and straightened the clutter. He also waited on me and tended to the kids. He did all this without being asked after he worked a ten hour day. I guess this is why we have been married almost 10 years : )

Rock on Big Daddy!!

7 comments:

Wendi Sotis said...

Sounds like a terrific guy!

:)

Jenn said...

WOOHOO! To all the awesome husbands out there!!!

I am sorry you had a bad day. It happens to all of us. I hope you feel better soon.

(HUGS)

Queenbuv3 said...

I guess the League of Super Moms will take away my cape for not being perfect, oh well : (

Anonymous said...

We all have those days. Don't feel alone! I have a great husband like that too. It's so important that we have the best support possible... as stay at home moms, and moms of special kids! I thank God every day for my husband, who when I'm most stressed asks of his own accord, "What can I do to help?" That's like the best way of saying I love you, I SWEAR! :)

Queenbuv3 said...

Hey Jenn, Miss you girl! Hugs back at ya!

Melinda said...

wow I can relate to how you felt here on this post! I don't have a husband currently to help out though like yours did. I am thankful you do! Hang in there!! You are NOT alone out here!

Queenbuv3 said...

Melinda-I give all the single moms out there A LOT of credit for raising children alone. You all deserve tons of respect. I have help and support from my hubby and still feel overwhelmed!